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Showing posts with label enjoy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label enjoy. Show all posts

Monday, October 22, 2012

Kekri Preparations

This is my Kekri altar with decorations
in 2011.
Moi!

It's time for me to start preparing for Kekri. Kekri is an old Finnish pagan celebration, which is quite similar to Samhain, Dia de los Muertos and many other celebrations around the world celebrated in the start of November. For ancient Finns Kekri was the celebration of harvest, and therefore also the celebration of a new year. One of it's traditions was to invite the spirits of the dead family members to join the celebration.

Finnish neo-pagans celebrate Kekri nowadays in the start of November, more precisely from the 1st to 3rd of November. To me it's one of the most important celebrations among Juhannus (Midsummer) and Joulu (or Yule).

As an Eclectic Pagan I don't follow any certain tradition purely. My Kekri celebration is centered around two things: 1) my altar and 2) a Kekri dinner with my family. (My mother is a Pagan too. The others are Christians and Atheists, but they still follow the long tradition of Kekri - but without the clearly pagan sides obviously.)

I traditionally start preparing my altar already about a week before Kekri. I clean it (both, physically and spiritually) and decorate it. And when the Kekri days finally arrive, I meditate, make a ritual and sacrifice for my gods and goddesses. [No, I don't kill humans nor other animals as a sacrifice. That's a very inaccurate stereotype about Pagans created by popular culture. :P]

One important and fun part of the tradition for me is the decoration of my altar. I enjoy doing lots of different kinds of handicraft, and every year I want to do something different and fun. This year I'll most probably make my altar very colorful. Colorfulness to me symbolizes happiness, adventures, learning and the joy of life. One just can't embrace those things too much. ^^ But otherwise the decorations and rituals are something I'm just starting to plan more precisely. I have no clearer ideas yet.

What comes to the rituals, they're something I won't publish in this blog. I have a principle that I keep the most important parts and details of my personal spirituality within myself. I can talk about them with certain people, but it's just as personal to me as - for example - details of one's sex life would be for someone else. You don't share those things to all of the world. ;)

Monday, September 24, 2012

The Little Things I Enjoy in Life

Inspired by my latest post, I decided to list some of the little things I enjoy in life. In the end, being able to enjoy the small seeming things is the main path to happiness.

  • Waking up and noticing that all the cats sleep next to me (or on top of me x) )
  • Cooking and eating together with my wife
  • Helping a friend
  • Having a dinner with my mom and other family, eating the food my mom has cooked
  • Getting an inspiration for a story
  • Flow mode when I write
  • Having thoughtful conversations with a dear friend
  • Realizing or learning something new and interesting
  • Finding a new exciting and useful software
  • The peaceful moment when you wake up at Saturday morning without a rush
  • When I find money from the bottom of my bag or from an old wallet
  • Exchanging smiles with a stranger
  • Meeting a new interesting person
  • People laughing at my joke
  • Making someone smile
  • Holding hands with the person I love
  • Winning in Left 4 Dead without dying once
  • Succeeding to kill the witch of L4D2 before it hurts me
  • Listening to Castle Crashers game soundtrack
  • Autumn leaf colors
  • At Spring, seeing the birds coming back to Finland
  • Seeing an awesome film (both, documentary or fiction)
  • Finding a new tv-series, which seems super good
  • After waiting for a week, seeing the next episode of my favorite tv-series. 
  • Sending a postcard to a stranger (postcrossing.com)
  • Receiving a postcard from a stranger
  • The first sip of fresh orange juice
  • The first bite of something that surprises you by its deliciousness
  • Watching the sunset
  • Watching the Moon
  • Walking in a forest
  • Watching big mountains
  • Going to summer cottage
  • Sitting on a quay, keeping the feet in the water while watching the lake.
  • First snow
And lots more. :) Might continue this post later. Now, here's some Castle Crashers music for you...